Monday, 13 July 2009

War of sexes


Men and women are different.They could be better or worse or just simply different.The only common factor they have that they belong to same species.Usally when a girl or boy is born they set their own rules and traditions either by birth or are nutured.

When a man goes to toilet he goes only for one reason and one reason only.Women uses toilets as social lounges .Women who go to toilets with strangers can come out being best friends and life long buddies.But if a man calls his friend to toilet everyone get suspicious of him.

Men dominate tv control and flick through channels,women dont even mind watching the commercials.When there is pressure men drink alcohol and invade different countries,women eat chocolate and go shopping.

Women criticise men for being insensitive,uncaring,not listening,not being warm and compassionate,not talking,not giving love,not being commited to relationship and turning the toilet seat up.
Men criticise women about their driving,for not being able to read map directions,for talking too much without getting to the point and leaving toilet seat down.

Men can never find their socks but they know exactly where they left their mobile ,women can find the missing keys but rarely the most direct route to their destination.If awomen is driving and she gets lost she will stop and ask for direction. If a man is driving and get lost he will go in circles for hours but willnot ask for direction.

Why do you think such differences occur is it because thats what generation taught us and we follow are ancestors or we just biologically born that way.

25 comments:

Babli said...

Thanks for visiting my blog and for your lovely comment.
I liked your blog very much.Now I have become your follower so I will be visiting your blog. I appreciate for your beautiful post. Keep writing.

Arch said...

Prefect post...you couldn't be more right about the differences...

Nazish Rahman said...

Thats really a lovely post Shilpa!!
Well observed...i think its a mixture of both.
Men n woman are biologically born different so its natural we think and react differently. Society and upbringing does play a major role in shaping our behavior to what ever happens around us. Its really because of this difference that a balance is maintained in the relationships and one does not get bored with each other. This is where this theory is applicable "Opposite's attract, likes repel"..so true.
We are born like that and the habits are inculcated in us.

*** Hey u missed "L" in the word BLOG in the column About Me..just check it.

Thanks for sharing with us...was nice.

take care

Regina said...

It's true when I get lost while driving I stop and ask for a direction. I carry a map in my car too:).
Thanks for sharing. Keep writing.
Nice post as always.
Regina

Aparna said...

I think it is because we are biologically different.
My husband says my brain will hibernate if I watch those daily soaps. He calls them meaningless crap.
But he constantly watches those movies with gun fights and car chases and calls them mind blowing!! Duh! Men! can't figure them out.

Vijay Khaitan said...

Very well written. May I add by saying "A woman can read a man's mind, man cannot read a woman's mind."

Smitha said...

That was lovely and so apt! I could see myself and my husband in most of the instances you cited :)

As for why the difference? I guess it has to do with biological differences as well as the bringing up...I think both add up.

My first time here and loved it :)

Rajesh said...

You have put together these natural differences very beautifully. May be this is biological.

Miss M said...

We are just biologically engineered differently. Thats all.

Plus, it balances up life quite well. :)

First time here. :)

shilpa said...

Thanks babli i really appreciate it

shilpa said...

thanks arch

shilpa said...

well said nazish but what was that L word dear

shilpa said...

I do that too when i am driving regina thanks for commenting maybe because girls are so organised hehehe

shilpa said...

aparna that was funnyyyyy your husband got good sense of humor thats so lovely of you to say that thanks

shilpa said...

Dadd i dont think women can read man mind nowadays you will have the answers in the newspapers but that was well said thanks for commenting

shilpa said...

Thanks for coming that keeps me motivated smitha

shilpa said...

Maybe its biological or maybe we follow our parents rajesh thanks for commenting

shilpa said...

Well said miss m thanks for visiting my blog

Nazish Rahman said...

On the right hand side of your blog in the About Me...the spelling of blog is written as BOG!!! thats what i meant i missed L!!!

take care

shilpa said...

Thats ok dear as long as you got the message nazish

SG said...

Nice blog. I want to add one for fun...not serious.

Three men go to a restaurant. The bill comes to $38.50. Each one puts a $20 bill on the table.

Three women go to a restaurant. The bill comes to $38.50. Each one takes out her pocket calculator.

shilpa said...

yeah yeah very funny i wonder if anyone do that SG

Nona said...

:) That was funny and intelligent at the same time.

Toilets as social lounges! :)

You are right about the comparison of both sexes when in distress! But both ways, both men and women are boosting the economy! :)

shilpa said...

yes nona i agree with you

Varsha Shrote said...

Very cute post! I know being with a man can be unnerving most of the times, but then don't women compliment men? Nature has created these differences for some reason and I think we should respect that--apart from enjoying them sometimes and getting annoyed sometimes:)